Some of us are so particular (yes, picky!) about whom we date and spend quality time with. Of course, we should be. No one should settle. But when is being picky just too much?
When being picky interferes with our ability to find dates and committed, long-lasting partners, it can lead to frustration, loneliness and resentment. Maybe we have to re-examine our priorities by asking ourselves, “Are you setting yourself up to be lonely by having impossibly perfect standards for your dream partner?”
Psychologist Jeremy S. Nicholson believes:
“Put simply, trying to find the absolute ‘best’ in love is an impossible task. There are simply too many people. No matter how much information and experience you obtain, there will always be somebody ‘better’ on some level out there. So, people spend their lives looking for that perfect someone, never find them…”
We know that no one is perfect, not even you! Instead of trying to find a perfect partner, maybe you can focus on finding a satisfying partner who is PERFECT FOR YOU.
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