Body language is a love language. Sometimes we show more with our nonverbal communication than with words. What is your body language saying about you?
Crossed arms=defensive, resistant
Eye contact=I am interested in what you have to say
Touching feet=flirtatious, friendly
Fast foot- or finger-tapping=nervousness, impatience
Leaning away=aversion, not wanting to participate
Side glances=distrust and suspicion
Smiling=happiness and joy
You say that you want soul mate. You desire a match and want to get married, but you are only available after 7pm on weekdays when you are not traveling (which you do every other week) and weekends when you get at least two weeks’ notice. It sounds like you are already married–to your career!
If you focus most of your time on your career, it takes up most of your time and energy. What you have left is, quite frankly, not much; not enough for a dog, a cat, a fish, a houseplant, and especially not enough for your significant other. Men and women sense this and those who desire close companionship will (rightly) stay away from you. Just like someone who is married, you are already taken and hence, unavailable.
If you want to get married, this goal should be prioritized with focus and dedication. In fact, you may need to get divorced from your career first to make yourself available for true love.