One of these patterns in being drawn to unavailable, commitment phobic people. It’s important to be very clear about what constitutes an unavailable person so you won’t be fooled by their charm or potential.
12 SIGNS YOU’RE ATTRACTED TO
EMOTIONALLY UNAVAILABLE PEOPLE (EUP)
Here are some red flags to watch for. Even one sign warns you to be careful. The more that are present, the more danger exists.
They are married or in a relationship with someone else
They can’t commit to you or have feared commitment in past relationships
They have one foot on the gas pedal, one foot on the break
They are emotionally distant, shut down, or can’t deal with conflict
They’re mainly interested in sex, not relating emotionally or spiritually
They are practicing alcoholics, sex addicts, or substance abusers
They prefer long distance relationships, emails, texting, or don’t introduce you to their friends and family
They are elusive, sneaky, frequently working or tired, and may disappear for periods
They are seductive with you but make empty promises–their behavior and words don’t match
They send mixed messages, flirt with others, or don’t give a straight answer–you’re always trying to “de-code” what they really mean
They’re narcissistic, only consider themselves, not your needs
They throw you emotional crumbs or enticing hints of their potential to be loving, then withdraw