Never Too Much

Luther Vandross

“Never Too Much” Performed by Luther Vandross

I can’t fool myself, I don’t want nobody else to ever love me
You are my shinin’ star, my guiding light, my love fantasy
There’s not a minute, hour, day or night that I don’t love you
You’re at the top of my list ’cause I’m always thinking of you
I still remember in the days when I was scared to touch you
How I spent my day dreaming, planning how to say I love you
You must have known that I had feelings deep enough to swim in
That’s when you opened up your heart and you told me to come in

Oh, my love
A thousand kisses from you is never too much
I just don’t wanna stop
Oh, my love
A million days in your arms is never too much
I just don’t wanna stop
Too much, never too much, never too much, never too much

Woke up today, looked at your picture just to get me started
I called you up, but you weren’t there and I was broken hearted
Hung up the phone, can’t be too late, the boss is so demanding
Opened the door up and to my surprise there you were standing
Well, who needs to go to work to hustle for another dollar
I’d rather be with you ’cause you make my heart scream and holler
Love is a gamble and I’m so glad that I’m winning
We’ve come a long way and yet this is only the beginning

Oh, my love
A thousand kisses from you is never too much
(Never too much, never too much, never too much)
I just don’t wanna stop
Oh, my love
A million days in your arms is never too much
(Never too much, never too much, never too much)
And I just don’t wanna stop
Oh, my love
A thousand kisses from you is never
(Never too much, never too much, never too much)
I just don’t wanna stop
Oh, my love
A million days in your arms is never too much

Pre-Order New Book

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The second book in the Black Girls Guide book series was recently announced: How to Find & Choose the Right Man. Released just in time for the international Valentine’s Day holiday, the book can be pre-ordered with free shipping. What is the new book about? According to author and African American Matchmaker, Angela D. Coleman:

“We are all looking for stable, loving, relationships. While there are some women who claim that they love the single life, we are all social beings in an interconnected universe who often crave the love of an understanding and committed partner. This guide will show you how to use the power of choice to find and choose a man who will love, respect and cherish you.”

For more information, visit www.blackgirlguide.com.

Relationship Attraction

Single vs in Relationship

 

When a man or woman is in a relationship (i.e., involved, taken), they tend to appear MORE attractive to members of the opposite sex.  Most people believe this and some of us have witnessed it personally, but there is scientific evidence that also supports it.

When a man or woman is in a relationship, it conveys the fact that this person is good relationship “material.”  In other words, they become more “relationship-worthy.”  If someone tries to take your significant other away from you, most likely it’s not anything personal–apparently, it’s human nature.

When someone is alone, it is hard to judge if s/he would make a good girlfriend or boyfriend.  But when they have a girlfriend or boyfriend, especially a socially attractive one, their “real estate” goes up and they become more valuable.   Their worth increases tremendously and others respond to this relationship validation.

In addition, when we are in loving relationships, we convey a sense of security and peaceful lovingness (yes, peaceful lovingness!).  This love radiates from us and is contagious.  Others feel it and want it for themselves, too.

Just know that the world is abundant.  There are plenty of men and women!  We don’t have to take anything from anyone else to get something for ourselves.  Always remember karmic law.  And if it can be taken from you, it wasn’t really yours, after all.

Top 10 Best Dating Tips

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  1. Date often.  Dating gives you and your person of interest the opportunity to get to know each other better.
  2. Don’t try to be perfect. Try to be your natural, best self.
  3. Date one-on-one.  Dating used to be the first step of a clearly defined, socially-created mating ritual.  Group dates are not really “dates” in the traditional sense.  You could easily get distracted and lose focus.
  4. Date with intention.  If you want a long-term relationship, date like you do.
  5. Do something funky and fun.  Try something new with someone new!
  6. Be open-minded, but keep your standards.  Just because someone wants to date you doesn’t mean you need to accept.  Think about it–you actually DO have better things to do.
  7. Don’t fall for words, look at actions.  Anyone can tell you who they are, but you be the judge.  Take your time.
  8. Focus on your date, not yourself.  Observe your date and let him/her ask questions.  Dialogue and conversation goes both ways.
  9. Avoid the appearance of desperation.  Predators can sense it and most people do not respect desperate people.
  10. Use creative visualization to date the wo/man you want. Call it the law of attraction, the Secret or something else-it works!